TO TELL OR NOT TO TELOS ?

«When we have three choices we may be glad for having a lot of choices. Then we choose one. Our values, knowledge, interests, experience and other things are pretty much involved. Yes...Life is different at every moment. We thought that we have done the right choice but...Life is not just quite what it seems. We're wrong. If possible we'll try the second and perhaps the third choice. Despite of any goal or achievement we can follow the three ways and still find that we were wrong. So, grab all the opportunities may be a lie or a wrong advise. More...Even if we are pleased for having such gathering of possible choices that doesn't solve by itself any problem. Three or other number may seem not enough if we consider it, just pointing to the telos, the goal, the target or just accept the opportunities given to us. Sometimes or shall I say many times we must deal with dead ends at least for a time, and must face above all with failure. None of the recipes we thought right where right. Thought it's just not enough to ensure that there are choices or that the choices presented to us are the only ones and that some - more than one - or even all may be wrong. So why do we persist faking that all that we decide is crucial, right or exact? I know the answer to this question but just let you guess. Are we so stupid that we are unable to see? And beyond that, how can we reject reality instead of accepting it ? Now imagine a solution made by a choice that works for a while. Is it the truth the only truth ? For a while it works and we soon start to believe ourselves that it will last forever. That we finally got the formula. Like a induction problem we fall again in the same old story, believing too much or relying too much on the choice or answer to a problem or just our choice about something. So in the end why do you take so seriously life or called choices and believe or trust ourselves too much ? Is decision or making choices the only or manly good ? It looks to me it is not. Sometimes you may choose not to choose and still keep our best choice of all. Acceptance of failure is very different of believing that we have been defeated. Got it smart minded ?! Did you learned anything from this ? »[noético-17/07/2014]