BE YOURSELF

«One day I've understood that being alone is not a handicap. But that included throwing out even notions like god and similar things. Those who say that one without god or something above him or without regular interaction with someone can not be happy are completely wrong. Loneliness it's not the same as unhappiness. Of course all of our education was planned to make us dependents of the others. That is the main problem that education and cultural marketing had caused on each one of us. They have always taught us wrong. I have much more availability to be a partner being independent than when i was following the so called community rules (almost of them of being dependent). Better alone than to fake social skills for dishonest purposes just because most of the people say it's good, christian or alright. I do not own nothing to anyone and that state makes me more free to engage common tasks with whom i want to share ideals, meanings and a lot of other important things. And I feel free for not having to explain why and how come I do it. Acceptance it's a word that many speak about but that few really practice in fact. Of course it's also necessary to say that acceptance results from free choices that also defines unacceptance towards what it's not our choice. That's inevitable. This is not any type of radicalism or ostracism, simply a human choice that has it's own reasons and also it's own consequences. Believe me, no one does or can make a true choice without focusing on the consequences. What we almost of the time do is pretending to choose. Fakeness it's a easy allied almost of the time for immediate social purposes. If we really choose even disagreements are naturally welcomed cause they make truly the difference.»[noético-10/09/2014]